# Self improvement
The salesman I purchased my car from shamed me for being divorced
**This is a work of nonfiction based on actual events that I have experienced firsthand; used with permission. I remember being at a car dealership buying my first car at age 27, shortly after my divorce. I was filling out the paperwork and the car salesman asked me if I was married. I let him know that I was divorced.
Learn How Transcendental Meditation Can Ease Stress, Anxiety, and Frustration
Transcendental Meditation (TM) is a form of mindfulness meditation that involves using a mantra to help the practitioner reach a state of deep relaxation and mental clarity. Research has shown that regular practice of TM can positively impact stress, anxiety, and anger by reducing cortisol levels (the stress hormone) and improving mood.
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My therapist said she didn't want to see me anymore
**This is a work of nonfiction based on actual events that I have experienced firsthand; used with permission. Coming to the conclusion that you might need help with some of the challenges in life can be a difficult realization. I know it was for me. After I went through a particularly trying time in my role as a stepparent several years ago, I sought therapy.
Journaling Is an Effective Tool for Maintaining Good Mental Health
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When an affair is more than superficial
Love, as it is blind, it prevents lovers see the funny nonsense they commit.” — William Shakespeare. He is the man you always dreamed of. He is ideal for you; he treats you like a queen; you are the perfect couple. The problem is that your better half is the better half of someone else.
How to Budget Properly: 50% Essentials, 30% Non-Essentials, 20% Savings
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Self Improvement Starts From Within
Everyone wants to be the best version of themselves, but few people actually do it. We are frequently our own worst enemies when it comes to achieving success, going after our dreams, and living passionate, fulfilling lives. Some people engage in unconscious self-destruction, but it can also happen to people who are aware of it but lack the ability or knowledge to make a change.
Breaking Free from the Cycle of Self-Criticism
My face was red, but I hoped my co-host, Kerry, couldn’t see it. Well, that was awful, I told myself. It was our first day recording together for our podcast, “Breaking Free From Narcissistic Abuse.” I’d been so excited at joining Kerry as a co-host just a few hours before we’d begun recording, but now I felt like I’d made a terrible mistake.
Taking Relationship Advice With a Grain of Salt
“Even if the connection is strong, is there enough emotional maturity between the two of you to build a home together? Do your levels of commitment to expanding self-awareness and healing past patterns match? This is not about perfection, this is about being willing to embrace growth.” ~ Yung Pueblo.
Simplifying Weight Loss: Going Back to the Basics
Well here we are again, another new year and the weight loss industry is still offering all types of miracle cures for people who are overweight. This industry really makes me angry, and not just because it cons people out of their hard earned cash by selling them products that don't work, but because all the information given out in a bid to sell products actually confuses people and leaves them wondering which way to go. Weight loss is not rocket science, it is easy, but all the conflicting information makes people lose sight of the basics.
Inner Engineering is the Key to Positive Results in Life and Love
All of the answers we seek are within. So why then do we look to others for external validations, for answers in troubling times, for things we actually already know? There are many reasons for this. Sometimes we lack confidence and feel others are more knowledgeable, sometimes it is pure laziness, sometimes we simply want validation that we were right, and other times we subconsciously do not realize we knew the answer all along.
I no longer speak to my parents, and I am better off
I haven’t spoken to either my mother or my father since December of 2018. Family is important and valuable to most people. Family is incredibly important to me as well. I have three children, a husband, and a very close set of friends.
I Gave up Routines for a Year. Here’s What Happened
I was afraid my life would fall apart. It didn’t. Here’s what I was afraid of: becoming lazy, gaining fat, sleeping until 10 every morning, feeling guilty, losing my job, not being able to carry out my projects, being lost, feeling lost, and not doing anything anymore.