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Going through a divorce is hard. You are going to have many emotions, even conflicting ones. There are going to be times when you can’t stop crying, and other times you are going to feel relief. You may also feel guilty like you could have done more. Many feel angry.

Divorce can happen no matter what your age. Divorce in millennials isn’t as common as it is in other generations. This may be because many wait to get married (or cohabitate instead of tying the knot). Also, the average age of divorce is around forty, so most millennials still have plenty of years to go.

I recently wrote an article about things that may surprise you about divorce. If you haven’t had a chance to read it, you can check it out right here. That being said, I don’t think that this story was done. In fact, I could probably write one or two more articles about all of the things that you may find surprising about divorce.

I recently wrote an article about all of the feelings that you may have during and after your divorce. If you haven’t had a chance to read it, you can check it out right here.

Though it may not feel like it, there are plenty of positives to come!. Divorce is often thought of negatively. Many people feel like they failed at one thing that they were supposed to get right: their marriage. Their entire life that they had planned out, is changing. Nothing may seem right at the moment (and for a few months or years after).

The truth is that you could deserve some help financially from your divorce. Unfortunately, divorce can really change a person’s life. You may have made plans for your life and nothing is turning out that way. You may need to sell the home where you raised your family, and find something smaller and more reasonable for one income.

Going through a divorce may end up being the hardest thing that you have ever done. Not only are you losing the person that you planned to spend the rest of your life with, but your entire life is going to change. Most people have to move. Financially, you may be facing uncertainty in the following months and years.

As soon as same-sex marriages became legal, many couples ran to make their relationships official. Many had been in relationships for years, but couldn’t wait to finally be able to say that they were married. However, that doesn’t mean that it worked out for them. Many same-sex marriages end in divorce, which can quickly become complicated.

Though you may think that you want to save some money, the truth is that you should never go through a divorce without a lawyer. The advice that you will receive will be invaluable, and a lawyer should help make the entire process go that much smoother.

The truth is that getting divorced can be extremely scary and there is nothing wrong with feeling that way. You are going to have to essentially start your life over, without the one person that you have counted on for the last few years. Financially, it can be overwhelmingly hard. For this reason, many people wonder if they should try to save some money before they file for divorce.

When you admit that divorce is the only option, it can be a whirlwind of emotions. You are probably feeling guilt. You may feel like you have given up or simply not tried hard enough. If you have children, you may feel guilty that you failed them. Another common emotion can be rejection. You may feel like your spouse had given up on you and essentially rejected you.

Choosing to get a divorce is life-changing. Because of all of the turmoil that is going on, you are going to need to find people that you can lean on. You need some family and friends who are going to be there for you, no matter what.

You may have read my one piece about women who get financially screwed in divorce. If you haven't read it yet, you can check it out here. I got a critique from some people who mentioned that it is not only women who get screwed. For this reason, I decided to write another article about men. You can check it out here if you would like.

You may have read my one piece about women who get financially screwed in divorce. If you haven't had a chance to read it, you can check it out right here. You may even have read a critique that I got. On Medium, James Gerboc wrote this to me, and it really struck me:

Going through a divorce is often the hardest thing that you will ever do. In the blink of an eye, your whole life is going to change. You may even feel like you are losing everything, including yourself!