# Manipulation
Opinion: Love Languages Misunderstood By Narcissists
As far as I’m aware,a romantic relationship doesn’t begin withabuse, the silent treatment, and neglect.Who wouldstayand tolerate that kind of behavior with someone that you’ve just met?If you aren’t emotionally invested it’s easy to leave without a second thought.
Manipulation Occurs Often In Relationships
First, it was the boyfriend that constantly played the victim role. Then it was the one who claimed that it was love at first sight and love-bombed me blind. Later on, I encountered gaslighting and constant invalidation, although I didn't know their exact terms.
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This Is What Gaslighting Looks Like
Gaslighting is a form of abuse and it’s very common in unhealthy relationships. According to Psychology Today, “Victims of gaslighting are fed false information that leads them to question what they know to be true. They may end up doubting their memory, their perception, and even their sanity.”
Dealing with Passive-Aggressive People
Gif of angry face revealed behind smiling maskoffice.microsoft. Passive-aggressive people act passive, but express aggression covertly. They're basically obstructionist and try to block whatever you want. Their unconscious anger gets transferred onto you, and you become frustrated and furious. Your fury is theirs, while they calmly ask, “Why are you getting so angry?” or blame you for the anger they’re provoking.