# Emotionally unavailable
Darlene Lancer LMFT
The Dance of Intimacy and Struggle for Closeness
The relationship duet is the dance of intimacy all couples do. One partner moves in, the other backs-up. Partners may reverse roles, but always maintain a certain space between them. The unspoken agreement is that the Pursuer chase the Distancer forever, but never catch-up, and that the Distancer keep running, but never really get away.
2021-12-20