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What You Thought Was Rejection, Was Your Protection

We do not know what rejection feels like until we are faced with it. But when we experience rejection, it is a result of the work we have done to move towards our goals and dreams.

  • Our ego is setting up an obstacle in our path and this is why we find it difficult to take the rejection at first.
  • Our ego is protecting us by getting us to believe that rejection is not part of our reality and this is not true.

This article will help you understand how rejection works and how you can use rejection to propel yourself forward.

What is the feeling of rejection?

When you are rejected, you feel that it could have been avoided and that you should have used better techniques to protect yourself. This is typically due to the fear of rejection and your fear of being vulnerable.

  • The fear of rejection is a natural response to the fear of being vulnerable.
  • When you are rejected, it is easy to feel extremely anxious.

The good news is that your fear of rejection is actually your protection.

Why does rejection feel so bad?

The world is full of people who are afraid of rejection. Whether it is from a romantic partner, a job interview, or even a friend, rejection can feel like a big deal.

However, this is where you can use rejection as a tool. Rejection is a part of life, and it’s important to understand it as such.

  • When you are experiencing rejection, try to remember that it is an opportunity to learn and grow. It is a chance for you to get better at handling your emotions.
  • Whenever you experience rejection, try to remember that it is a way for you to protect yourself and to be able to handle your emotions better.

We can find the power in rejection

Rejection is one of the hardest feelings to overcome. It can really hit you in the heart and make you question who you are. But the good news is that rejection is a natural feeling and no one is perfect, so it can happen to anyone.

When we experience rejection, we believe it's our fault and our self-esteem is impacted. The thing that separates us from our friends and family is that they can just brush it off and move on.

  • For example, your friend may not text you back after you ask them if they want to hang out. It may be because they are busy, they forgot, or they just don't want to hang out with you.
  • But you, on the other hand, have to ask yourself why you texted them in the first place and why you're feeling the rejection. It may be because you were looking for approval or validation, or it may be because you are not being yourself.

This is also true when it comes to rejection. Through this article, I would like to remind you that rejection is inevitable. I know that it can be tough to get through the challenges of life, but I think it's important to find the good in things that happen.

No matter what happens, we can find the power in rejection because rejection can teach us valuable lessons. When we experience rejection, we learn the importance of not settling for less. We learn to push for more. Rejection is also a reminder that we should never stop trying.

How can we motivate ourselves to lift ourselves up?

It's likely that you've experienced rejection before in your life, whether it was at school, in your relationships, or in your career. Rejection is hard.

  • It can be painful and tears can easily fall. It's easy to wallow in our self-pity. We are not alone in this. Most people feel this way.
  • It can be difficult to move past the emotions associated with rejection because it can hit our core self. You need to talk to someone who will love and support you in this process and work through it with you.

I want to encourage you to use the emotions of rejection to empower yourself from this point forward. I've found that when we experience rejection, it's best to think of it as a challenge.

Remember, if you are rejected, it's not about what you are doing wrong; it's about the other person's limitations. It is not about you, it's about them.

Rejection is a gift. When you are rejected you are given the opportunity to grow and learn, and you can use these experiences to motivate yourself.

How can we be better when we're denied?

When we're denied, it can be difficult to feel empowered. We may feel as though we did something wrong and that we've failed. However, there are many ways for us to be better, even when we are denied. Here are three ways to be better when we're denied:-

  1. Confront the person who denied you. When someone denies you, ask them why. When you confront people, you're able to let them know how you feel and what they did. This can also help you to build a foundation for accepting their decision.
  2. Make a list of all the people you've been denied by. There's a lot of power in taking a step back and thinking about who denied you and why.
  3. Accept their decision. If you were denied, consider accepting the situation. Instead of letting the denial dictate how you feel, consider accepting it, and move on.

How can we be better than others?

Rejection is a reality of life, and it's not always easy to cope with. If you've experienced rejection, you may find yourself wondering how to move forward and learn from it. Here are three ways you can use this experience to empower yourself:-

  1. Embrace the emotions. Learn how to let your feelings of rejection empower you by using them as fuel to propel you through your next venture.
  2. Don't hold your feelings in. It's never a good idea to bottle up your emotions and let them fester. Open up about your feelings to someone you trust or reach out to a friend.
  3. Make a list of lessons learned. Once you've dealt with the rejection, use your emotions to learn from it and write down the lessons that you've learned.


Thank you for reading our blog post about how to deal with rejection. We hope that by using these tips, you'll be able to overcome any feelings you have around rejection and come out of it with a stronger sense of self.

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