Q & A: Did he cheat by helping a friend?


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So I'm just an average Joe sort of speak me meaning I work a regular job fixing cars, it is a messy job but I love it. I make good pay I've been doing this for 10 years and got my own little side business that brings in good money too. Well, one weekend the fellas and I went to this local Gentlemen’s club and it was my first time. I was never one to go to those types of establishments being that I give all my money to my wife and felt like she was enough dancer for me, but when I walked in those doors it was like a scene off Player’s Club and this one performer named strawberry just caught my attention immediately. That was six months ago and now strawberry and I have been seeing each other on a regular. Not really outside the club but she has been getting a lot of my checks, and my wife starting to ask questions. I haven't slept with her but I feel like I'm cheating. At this point I have invested a lot into her education I'm thinking I might as well see it thru what you think, or am I just a dreamer?

Well, Mr. Average Joe, I can most definitely see the dilemma in your situation. The club can be an exotic and enchanting place where you can easily get lost in the sauce or juices let's say. You got to remember though what is important and you made a vow to your wife to be true and honest to her. So she needs to know what's going on if you not planning on stopping. Take her to the club and show her strawberry and let her know, “love this where all the extra money been going I‘m trying to help her thru school. She is not gone like it but she is going to appreciate your honesty and see the chivalry in it, they always say gentlemen are a dying breed so show her they can live on through you. Then yawl can maybe help her together like foster parents. It does say in the bible "help thy neighbor" so hit her with one of those and a couple of prayers hopefully you be good. Now, this is just what I would do you could also just tell her you've been going to the lounge and giving your money to a performer name strawberry and wait for a response and go from there. I know one thing whatever you do I want to know. Keep me informed cause I believe there are other men out there you can help with your experiences and probably women too. They do not understand we not just giving money out but we helping build communities and helping women achieve higher educations isn't that what these movements are about. I support them all I'm just saying It ain't like you done fell in love with her or something? What you think Joe should do, leave comments at the bottom hit follow to see how Joe's situation ends up.

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