4 Must-Ask Dating Questions

Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue

Going on a first date can be unnerving for some, and there are times when you don't really know what to say. Nevertheless, it is important to stimulate conversation between you and the person that you are considering bringing into your life, so here are four topics that you should touch on before deciding whether or not to move forward with a relationship.

1. The Person's View on Monogamy

You might want to know if you are the only one that the person that you are going out with is dating. If this isn't the case, then the two of you might not be able to get to know each other on a more personal level, because the other person will have to divvy his or her attention out between multiple people.

2. The Person's View on Employment

If you are considering a commitment with the person that you are going out with, you might want to make sure that both of you have similar views on employment and are willing to take the steps necessary to secure the financial side of your future. If your partner is unemployed or not interested in looking for work, then the two of you might have issues with that later on.

3. The Person's View on Family

You might want to find out if the person that you are dating has goals regarding having children. If the person that you are dating doesn't want children and you do, this might create a big wedge between the two of you later on and fuel resentment.

4. The Person's View on Going Out

If you are the kind of person that likes to go out and have fun with your friends and your partner is a homebody, you might find some conflict in that area. Your partner might want to stay home and enjoy his or her time with you, while you are thinking about all of the things that you want to do besides staying home. The two of you might want to find some common ground on this issue before taking the next step forward so that both of you can enjoy your lives to the fullest.

A first date is a good time to establish who you are and what your wants and needs are, and this is also a good time to find out the same about your partner. Make sure that you ask the questions necessary to make sure that the person that you are going out with has similar goals and is flexible enough to work with yours. If you establish this right off the bat, you might find that you have less issues later on.

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Nicole Higginbotham-Hogue writes lifestyle articles.

Omaha, NE

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