After being in a relationship for a while, you might find that you are having issues remembering who you were before the relationship began. This can create issues as you struggle to remember your personal identity and what makes you who you are. Maintaining a personal identity in a relationship can be difficult for some people. However, this is not an impossible task.
The person that you are with fell in love with you because of you were yourself, so if you need to step back and find yourself again in your relationship, then don't wait to do so. One way that you can get back to your roots is to write in a diary. This can help you put your thoughts and feelings on paper without having to worry about what anyone else thinks. Having a place where you can unload without judgement can assist you in maintaining your own thoughts and beliefs and help you reflect on your current situation.
You might also want to think about going on a personal retreat. You can go camping or on a vacation or just spend time alone in one of the rooms in your house. Make sure that no one bothers you during this time, so you have time to think about your needs and wants without disruptions. This might help you better understand who you are and what you want and if you have changed.
Take time for yourself to reflect on your life. Your wants and needs are important, and your perspective on life is special so make time to hone that.