When you first start dating someone, it might be tempting to do things that will make the other person happy. There is nothing wrong with this as long as you are being genuine with your intentions. However, sometimes, we do or say things that we don't really mean just so the other person likes what we are saying. Doing this can create issues with the relationship later down the line, and it can also create a lot of confusion.
It is important that when you get into a new relationship to be honest with your intentions. If there is something that you need in the relationship, let the other person know. Though it is difficult to say some of these things without worrying about what the other person will think, it is important. Both people in a relationship need to know where the other person stands. They need to know how the other person sees the future and about any big goals that the other person has. If you pretend to like something that you don't really like, then you might start resenting the person that you are with. However, if you are honest from the start, it might prevent future fights on the subject at hand.
Honesty is a great way to start a relationship. It can allow the two of you to decide if you really are compatible and if you have the same or similar goals. So, try to be honest about your wants and needs. Communicate, and make sure that you are being honest about your intentions.
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