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When someone you have a crush on isn't into you anymore, it can be heartbreaking. Think of a cookie crumbling in your hands as you squeeze it tight. Now, imagine that cookie is your heart. It hurts... doesn't it?
While trying to find a partner, rejection is a natural part of the process. It helps you to figure out who's interested and who's not. But if someone doesn't straightforwardly say, "I don't want to date you," it can often be difficult to get the hint. Quoting an article published by Elite Daily:
"It should be obvious. But many men go through life shamelessly wasting their energy on a female who has absolutely zero interest in them."
So if you want to know if someone isn't interested in you anymore, here are several signs that you should look out for:
She Constantly Flakes On Plans.
Sometimes, there's a perfectly valid reason why she can't talk/meet up/go on a date. For example, if she's sick or spending time with family, she's probably not going to be checking her phone every 10 seconds.
However, if she takes days (or even weeks) to respond to each message, it could be a sign that she doesn't want to have long conversations (or meet up) with you.
Her Replies Are Incredibly Blunt.
This is something I see people do all the time. They don't want to feel guilty for not responding to every message. So instead, they give very short replies of one or two words. Even if you send an entire paragraph or ask an open-ended question, a blunt reply could signal a lack of interest from the other person.