Why You Suck At Flirting With Women

Matt Lillywhite

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Most of us flirt to build a stronger and more intimate relationship with someone we find attractive. We do it to let them know we're interested and ready to commit to something beautiful. But sometimes, it can backfire. So if you want to flirt with your crush, here are several things you should never do:

Try To Impress The Other Person All The Time.

Don't try too hard. It can be incredibly off-putting. Sometimes, it can make you appear extremely desperate. Quoting an article published by Psychology Today:

"Needing things in a relationship is a normal human response, but however needy you feel, try to remember that you also need a variety of relationships and that one person, however much you like them, cannot supply all your needs, nor should they be expected to.
If you are very needy and have not addressed childhood issues of being unloved or unappreciated, then it is unlikely that anyone will be able to address all your needs. You need to do this for yourself."

Let the other person discover how amazing you really are. If you're genuinely as awesome as you think, spending time together will help them to realize that.

Stalk The Other Person On Social Media.

Of course, it can be nice to see that you're paying attention to what your crush posts on social media. But if you're scrolling back to 2014 and liking everything you see, it could come across as incredibly creepy.

Instead, be selective about the content you view and interact with. Don't make it look like you have way too much time on your hands. And obviously, try not to do anything that could make you seem like a stalker. That's a surefire way to kill any chances of getting into a relationship.

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