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I used to feel extremely insecure.
I hated the way I spoke, looked, and pretty much everything else about me.
But there's something I didn't realize: attraction isn't just how you look. Of course not. It's also how you attract people into your own life due to the qualities you possess.
So if you want to become a lot more attractive, here are three things you can do today:
Focus On Your Posture.
Stand up straight with your shoulders back while talking to someone during a conversation. It's much better than slouching, and appearing as if you don't care about your physical appearance.
A good posture can make you look (and feel) a lot more confident. And when you're confident, it's much easier to strike up conversations, and attract new people into your own life.
Pay Attention To How You Dress.
Whether you like it or not, you need to look the part. Try and wear clothes that fit well, feel comfortable, and look great.
Your clothes reflect your personality and what you value. If you dress like you haven't showered in three weeks, it'll be incredibly tough to make new friends. After all, if you can't put an effort into your own self, people will think you won't be able to make an effort in your relationships.
Make Better Eye Contact.
Look people in the eye when they're talking to you during a conversation.
Why? Because when you take a genuine interest in other people, they're much more likely to do the same with you. And when you're both interested in what you each have to say, it's much easier to create a meaningful connection that lasts a lifetime.