People who use these 5 phrases have no confidence

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People who use these 5 phrases have no confidence.

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Communication is key to victory in every aspect of your life. As communicators, we have a responsibility to understand that our words can affect others. Having Language means that you can speak to others and understand them through communication skills. Language carries power, and it is crucial to use proper tone when speaking. People who use the five phrases below tend to have very low self-confidence. It's never too late! You can gain confidence by preventing these communication habits and eliminating them from your vocabulary.

1. Saying "I'm sorry" 100 times and feeling guilty for everyday actions

Having self-doubt is not bad, and anxiety and fear of the unknown are prevalent. However, Practicing helps you overcome those emotions. When you have self-doubt in something, you need to practice and enhance your knowledge in that area. Or maybe you are overstressed and need a break. Never feel ashamed of your mistakes. Always learn from them and never say that you feel sorry for your actions. Your worth as a person is equal to everyone else's. And you have the right to stand up for yourself and sometimes make a mistake.

"Never feel shame for trying and failing, for he who has never failed is he who has never tried."
― Og Mandino, The Greatest Salesman in the World

2. Saying, "I can't do this, I don't know how to this."

We are all human. Confidence doesn't mean that you will win all the time and won't fail. It doesn't mean you're always smiling to life or that you never experience grief, sadness, and anxiety. Instead, it means you know you can manage those emotions and push through them to conquer the next challenge.

Never say that you can't do something, some people believe that things are impossible to be done, but you need to know that human beings are limited only by their beliefs. Anything in the world is possible. Of course, you need to work hard to achieve that. So never be a victim by saying that you can't. When you say it loud, you will accept it, and when you believe it, other people can feel it too.

3. Saying, "I don't know what to choose."

Do you always ask other people's ideas about every detail of your life? How to dress, what to eat, what to buy, what you need?

You are cautious about your decisions and cannot trust yourself. People are tired of you, your questions, and giving constant reassurance. If you are that person who doesn't know what to do, it is a sign that you have low self-esteem or self-confidence. You never had a chance to make decisions for your actions. or maybe when you were a child, you didn't have the privilege to choose anything for yourself. That indeed ruined your confidence.

4. Saying I'm not sure

no one knows the exact answer. No one is 100 percent sure about things. Sometimes you need to believe in yourself even if you are not sure. Constant use of these expressions, such as I am not sure, maybe, are looks like an excuse.

5. Saying, "I am tired."

If you continuously feel Fatigued, having Low self-esteem, and Socially isolated. Then you should know that these are the signs and the symptoms of having depression, which may cause you to have low self-confidence. If you always complain that you are tired, you bring down others' festive mood and increase negativity. People don't like to be surrounded by tired people. We always seek happiness and happy people. So repeating these words make you an unlikable and annoying person.

6. Saying, "I know you all disagree."

You already convinced everyone that you are wrong. And all that you have a plan to say is useless. No one wants to listen to people who don't believe in themselves. If you don't believe in yourself, why should they? If you have an idea and think it is not worth it, why do you say it? But when you decide to use your words' power, be confident. Even your facial expression can bring joy and excitement to listeners. Whenever you feel that people aren't listening to you, listen to them first and then see what appears. Try to explain less. Before you start talking, take a minute to think about how to communicate your message's essence.

People with Self-confidence understand their value. And they know what they want from their lives. If you value yourself, that is a good sign that you have self-confidence. Self-love is when you accept yourself, and you are entirely aware of your strengths and weaknesses. When you have self-confidence, you never let other people bring you down with their actions. Suppose anyone in your life gets you down. In your family, in your friend's circle, or your job, look for signs inside you. Why is this happening to you? Why do you let them do this to you? Remind yourself that you don't need those emotions in your life. Teach people how to treat you. You have all the power over your feelings, So if someone in your life isn't treating you with the respect and kindness you deserve, you know that you can make decisions.

It's time to believe in yourself and your abilities. You are worth it, and there is no reason to be ashamed of yourself. We are all individuals, and no one is greater than another one. We are all seeking to continue our lives and not fail. We all have ups and downs, tears and joys, fair and most unfortunate moments, but in the end, the secret is that we all rise again. We forget the past and learn a lesson from it, and we forgive ourselves for every self-blame and self-destructive attitude. Instead, we substitute it with (positive thinking).

People who repeatedly attack your confidence and self-esteem are quite aware of your potential, even if you are not.
By Wyne Gerard Trotman

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