I Can Teach You How to Spot a Narcissist With This One Question

Dr. Christine Bradstreet

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I like understanding what I’m dealing with.

So when I read about this study at Ohio State University, it felt like a great tool for my toolbox.

I’m not a psychiatrist, and chances are you aren’t either, so I am not offering this tip as any sort of diagnostic tool.

I’m offering it because we interact every day at work and in our families with all sorts of personalities.

And like I said, I like understanding what I am dealing with.

According to this study, the researchers could reliably determine if someone was a narcissist by asking one very simple question.

They verified the results by comparing them to the gold standard currently in use called the Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI).

Careful because you could miss it in its simplicity…

They asked study participants this question (including the note that follows the question):

“To what extent do you agree with this statement: “I am a narcissist.” (Note: The word “narcissist” means egotistical, self-focused, and vain.)”

The participants were asked to rate themselves as 1 (not very true for me) to 7 (very true for me).

People who scored as narcissists on the NPI also scored high in response to that one straight forward question.

Well, whaddya know. Narcissists are self aware and honest!

“People who are willing to admit they are more narcissistic than others probably actually are more narcissistic,” Brad Bushman, co-author of the study

The researchers concluded that narcissists see narcissism as a positive trait, so there is no need to try to hide it. They are almost proud of it.

Narcissists see themselves as superior to others, so why lie about it?

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“No one has probably helped me more with my narcissism than my dog.” Tucker Max

Why do we care?

I care because, like it says in my bio above, I am fascinated by human behavior.

It helps me navigate my world if I have a better understanding of why people do what they do.

It helps me help my clients if I can see what motivates them.

Narcissists are driven by their image and what other people think of them.

They are less agreeable and have more fear, shame, and anger.

People who demonstrate narcissism are more likely to engage in risky sexual behaviors and have difficulty maintaining long-term committed romantic relationships.

On the upside, narcissism is associated with high creativity, happiness, and self-esteem, and low anxiety and depression.

You aren’t going to change a narcissist. Just recognize who you're dealing with and adapt appropriately.

Hold firm to your boundaries.

Don’t argue with them, you won’t win.

If you need leverage, use their need to be admired. Show them how doing good will make them look good.

And get paid upfront.

You can read the results of the study HERE if you like.

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Dr. Christine Bradstreet is a renowned transformation specialist, an inspirational author, and a health and wellness expert. Through her teachings, people learn to create more of what they want in their lives - more health and wellness in their bodies, minds, and spirits. When she's not writing, she offers workshops and lectures, and she works individually with clients to promote healing in their lives. Visit her at www.christinebradstreet.com.

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