Romance Really Starts with the Heart

Cynthia Greene, MHR, Marriage & Relationship Visionary Strategist
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Yes, you have finally discovered the lady of your dreams, but you want to be able to keep her as well. If you're not sure how to romance your lady, here are a few pointers.

Being romantic is not something that all men are naturally gifted at. However, the fact that you are here, reading this to learn how to romance a lady, indicates that you are on the right route and are prepared to put up the necessary effort!

Let's face it, women like being courted. You've come to the correct spot, whether you've been going out with her for years and want to express your gratitude, or if you're searching for some amazing ideas to try to capture the lady of your dreams.

Write her a special letter

This is one of the most romantic and heartfelt ways to express your love and affection. The letter is a form of communication that has been around for centuries. It is a way to express feelings and thoughts to the one you love. Especially when you don’t necessarily know how to verbalize vocally how you truly feel.
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Send her a cute text

Cute text messages are a great way to show your interest in someone you like. They are also an easy way to break the ice with someone you don't know well. Many people use texting as a form of communication. It is an effective and efficient way to say what you want without being too direct, and it can be used for both casual conversations and romantic relationships.

Buy her favorite perfume

She is always complimented on her perfume. It is a great way to make a woman feel special and to show her that you are thinking of her. However, it can be difficult to find the perfect perfume for your significant other when they have specific tastes in fragrances. This often leads to disappointment or even frustration because you might not be able to get something they love as much as they love what they have. Casually ask her one day what scent are you wearing and is that you favorite type to wear? Use that information as a guide to purchasing her a new bottle.
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Cook her dinner

The idea of cooking dinner for your girlfriend is a romantic gesture that is appreciated and appreciated. However, it can be challenging to cook dinner for someone who has different tastes and preferences than you. Paying attention to what she orders when you go out to eat can be a big help in deciding what to prepare for her. You could also ask her to cook a meal together.

Get dressed up and go out

You are planning a romantic night out with your partner and you want to make it special. You want to go somewhere that is not too crowded and where the ambiance is romantic. One of the best dates night places is an outdoor patio bar. You need to find a suitable place for your date night, and you are in luck because many great options in the city offer outdoor patios. The key here is finding one with the right ambiance and atmosphere so you can enjoy your evening without any distractions.
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Make her laugh

While making your partner laugh is not a difficult task, it can be hard to know what to say or do. This article will give you some examples of funny things that you can do to make her laugh. A good way to make your mate laugh is by making jokes about how she looks (in a positive way). Most times it will actually cause her to blush. You should also try and incorporate actions into your jokes, like wiggling your eyebrows or doing a funny dance routine. Be your natural self when doing this but with light humor and actions added in. You don't want her to think you're being fake or trying too hard.

Romance really starts with doing things you love to do and learning things that the other person loves to do and doing them together. It’s being authentic, not trying to impress. It’s spending special moments together. It’s finding the right moment at the right time to share thoughts, deeds and gestures. Expressing yourself and learning how the other person likes to express themselves leads to effective relationship building.
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April is National Couple Appreciation Month. We know that every month has some special occasions to celebrate, but we love celebrations. Every relationship should incorporate special celebrations on the regular. Oftentimes, we focus on all the negative or wrong things in our relationship and forget to recognize the smallest of wins. Throughout the month of April, we will recognize couples who are putting the work in to have happy, healthy, successful marriages. If you are one of them, simply send us your name and picture by clicking on the link In Love and Loving It and we will send you your own branded graphic! We want to celebrate you.

Forever in Love,

Cynthia Greene, The Marriage Visionary

“If you build it, it will last”

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Cynthia Greene is a Certified Professional Life Coach, Prolific Speaker, Best Seller Author & has a Masters in Human Relations. She has been helping others with creating strategies to build successful marriages and relationships for over 20 years.

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