Opinion: A terrible possibility we all face at one time or another
One day you will meet someone you trust with all your heart. Of course, you’d put them over anyone. But instead, you will support them against friends and family’s better judgment because you are trustworthy and caring.Read full story
Opinion; So, is it normal to want the narcissist to suffer after you leave?
This is a normal human feeling of being abused. But, unfortunately, it often led me down the rabbit hole of believing my ex, that I was a narcissist. All because I was reacting to the manipulation and lies.Read full story
Opinion: What things have you done, or are doing that is wasting your precious life?
Many waste years of their life worrying about things that doesn’t matter — years in relationships with those that don’t value or respect us. And years chasing something that we “think” will make us feel better. Only to end up at the end of our road scratching our heads.Read full story
Medieval Barbers; From Haircuts and Amputation to The Bloody In-between
Medicine is rapidly changing and evolving each year. But who would have thought back in the middle ages, the barber was also a makeshift surgeon performing amputations, teeth pulling, leaching, bloodletting, and of course, your typical beard trip or haircut?Read full story
Opinion: How Living a Life of "Quiet Desperation" Destroys Purpose
Your alarm goes off, and you hit snooze. Another miserable day at the office. Or maybe the factory, either or, you’re sick of this life. You roll over and look at the same face you’ve been staring at for the last 10+ years. Maybe you love her, perhaps you don’t, but you thought life would be different than this. You two seem to have lost your “connection” years ago.Read full story
Opinion: The "Potential" Narcissist Victims Live in Keep Them Stuck
The relationship is on again! You can’t believe you two are finally back together! It might work this time. She really seems like she loves and cares for me this time! It’s been so long since I’ve seen her, the good memories have slowly replaced the torment I’ve endured over the years! Thank freaking god!Read full story
Opinion: Do People Eventually See Through The Narcissists Manipulation?
I think people do eventually see through Narcissism. Actually, quicker than one would think. But there is a thing called denial, and all victims and even the narcissist live in it.Read full story
Opinion: Do Intelligent People Fall for The Manipulation of a Narcissists?
*I share my opinions, experiences, and knowledge on my path through narcissistic abuse*. It has nothing to do with your IQ or how smart you are. Unfortunately, some of the most intelligent people can lack self-awareness.Read full story
Opinion: Do We Fall in Love With The Wrong Person or a Painful Lesson We Ignored?
I share my opinions, experiences, and knowledge on my path through narcissistic abuse. While many from the outside looking in would beg to differ, I still stand by it. At times I question if it was love and not just infatuation. No way two people “love” and treat each other like my ex and I did.Read full story
Opinion: Why Drinking to Cope With Narcissists Abuse is Never a Good Idea
Society has normalized drinking as the thing to do in any situation. We aren’t shown healthy coping mechanisms. We are conditioned that escape is the answer. New mothers are encouraged to drink when dealing with a fussy child.Read full story
Opinion-Two Ways to Overcome Loneliness After Narcissists Abuse
I share my opinions, experiences, and knowledge on my path through narcissistic abuse. Once the relationship ends, feeling lonely doesn't do it justice. Especially if the relationship was relatively new and you're still severely trauma bonded.Read full story
Opinion-What Kind of Woman Would You Never Cheat on?
When James first met Louise, she was everything he ever wanted. Independent, intelligent, pretty, funny, spiritual, self-aware, and so much more. James grew closer and closer as the months went on, and it happened. He caught her cheating with what he thought was her ex-husband, but she was still married.Read full story
Opinion: When The Illusion of Self Love Goes Wrong
I would say it’s more difficult to do than it is "important" Doesn’t matter how important something is unless take action, but more importantly know what action you need to take.Read full story
Opinion: Taylor Swift's New Song "Anti-Hero" Has a Hidden Meaning. Do you Know What it is?
It's me, Hi. I'm the problem it's me. When I first heard the song on the radio, I thought Swift was talking about herself. And in a sense, I think she is. She is a roundabout-way hinting that no matter what she does, she will be characterized as manipulative and validating seeking, similar to that of a politician.Read full story
Opinion: To be single in today's world you must be comfortable being alone
After years of “settling” many learn the brutal truth of a miserable marriage or, relationship. This isn’t a negative article, it’s reality. We are trained at a very early age to find a husband/wife, that WILL bring happiness. We are told to stick through abuse and misery, that’s unconditional love! Stay by your man or, woman! Not only friends and family encourage it, but your church will too. They will suggest therapy to deal with the toxic situation you need to leave.Read full story
How The Narcissist Makes You Believe You are The Problem
I’d say 99% of Narcissist have no idea they are Narcissist. Unless they are very aware, which doesn’t exist. Most really believe they are empaths. That is what’s scary. Many coverts portray an image on social media that doesn’t exist. An empathic person doesn’t repeatedly lie, cheat, manipulate and rip souls out! The more covert, the more believable they will be. Especially if they are the “spiritual” type. They may use the spiritual dogma as a means to work their way into a victim’s life while the victim is completely unaware.Read full story