If Someone Really Loves You

Bella Smith

Even though love is an emotion that is widely understood, defining it can be a challenge. The feeling of being in love is something that everyone has experienced at some point in their lives, and everyone believes that it is the best thing that could have happened to them. Nevertheless, what exactly does it mean to “love” another person? A feeling of adoration and respect is all that love is for some people. Others define love as an itense emotional bond that cannot be expressed in words. Other others believe that loving someone is a lifelong adventure that requires a complete sacrifice.

When it comes to knowing when someone truly loves and cares about you, it can be tough to decipher. After all, we all react differently to love, and people can be very difficult to read. However, there are a few signs that someone really loves and cares about you. For one, they will always put your needs before their own. They will also be loyal and consistent in their actions, no matter how difficult things might get. They will also be there for you through thick and thin, and will always be there to support you. So, if you’re looking for a sign that someone loves you deeply and truly cares for your wellbeing, look no further than these few simple signs.

  • If someone truly loves you, they will make an effort to communicate with you in whatever way works best for both of you. Whether that’s a text, call or a simple hello, they will know that you need and want their attention. You don’t have to beg them for anything — they’ve already shown their love in the best way possible by always making time for you. They will also make an effort to listen to what you have to say, and not just blindly follow their own agenda. If someone truly loves you, they will take care of you, no matter what.
  • If someone truly cares about you, they would not make you feel as if you have to continuously satisfy their needs. Your wants and desires will be recognized, and your loved one will respect you for who you are as a result of their understanding of your situation. In exchange, you should always be sympathetic and compassionate towards them, no matter what the circumstances are.
  • If someone truly loves you, they will never let you go to bed wondering if you still matter to them. Love doesn’t just exist in our hearts — it’s expressed through our actions. When someone loves you, they will always stand by your side and be there for you no matter what. They will do everything in their power to make sure that you are happy and comfortable. They will never let you feel like you’re not worth it, or like you’re not good enough.
  • If someone truly loves you, they’ll never ask you to do things that you obviously can’t. For example, if they know you struggle with a certain activity or sport, they’ll likely not push you to do it if it’s not something that you’re comfortable doing. They also won’t try to micro-manage your life or take control of every aspect of your life. In fact, if someone truly loves you, they’ll leave you alone and let you do your own thing most of the time.
  • When someone truly loves you, they won’t let you lose the best years of your life by being toxic with you. Toxic people love to control and dominate others, but they never have anything good to say or offer in return. They are full of anger, sadness, and regret, and will do anything to hurt you. They will try to destroy your relationships, break your heart, and take away all the happiness that was once yours. If someone loves you, they will want to help you flourish and thrive in every aspect of your life. They will encourage your passions, support your dreams, and help you reach your fullest potential. They will never intentionally inflict pain on you, and they will always fight for your wellbeing.
  • When someone truly loves you, they won’t let the energy you’ve shared with them be wasted. Whether it’s your laughter, your happiness, or your tears — they won’t let them go to waste. And that’s because they know that these memories are unique and priceless, and that you will never be able to recreate them again. They also understand that love is a journey, not an event, and that it always evolves. So, when someone loves you truly, they will cherish every moment of it — even the tough ones.
  • If someone really loves you, they won’t hesitate to tell you the songs that kept them alive when they felt like nothing else could save them. They will share the lyrics of songs that remind them of you, or that make them feel close to you. These songs are special because they remind the person who loves you that you have a special place in their heart, and that even when things seem bleak, there’s always a chance for redemption. For someone who loves you truly, these songs are engraved in their memory and soul, and they will never forget the moment they heard them for the first time.
  • When someone really loves you, they should be there for you in times of need. They should make you feel safe and loved, without making you feel tense, scared and anxious. People who truly love you will never do anything to make you feel bad, or like you are a burden to them. They will be there for you, no matter what, and will do anything to make you happy.
  • If someone really loves you, they will never stop trying to make things right. When something goes wrong, they will always try to fix it as fast as possible. No matter how mad they are, they will always driving go out of the way to make sure that you are safe. If someone really loves you, they will never stop trying to do the right thing.
  • If someone really loves you, they will listen attentively and respectfully to what you have to say, even if they don’t agree with you. This shows that they care about your feelings and values, and are willing to work towards a common goal together.
  • If someone truly loves you, they’ll be concerned about why you’ve been quiet all day and they won’t get angry when you act differently. They’ll want to know what’s going on and why you’ve been hiding yourself away. They’ll want to help you and support you through whatever issue is plaguing you. If someone truly loves you, they won’t judge or criticize you for how you’re feeling, instead they will support and understand your feelings. Maintaining a healthy relationship starts with communicating. If you’ve been feeling down or out of sorts lately, and your partner hasn’t been asking you how you’re doing, it might be a sign that they don’t really care about you. True love would want to understand what’s going on in your life, and they would want to help you out in any way they can.
  • When someone truly loves you, they will not just hit the like button on your posts — they’ll click all the comments. They will be invested in your success and will want to see every post you make so that they can support you and encourage you in your journey. They will also be proactive in letting you know when they think you could do better, and offer constructive feedback. These are the types of people who will truly make a difference in your life — the ones who love you for who you are, not for what you can do for them.
  • True love doesn’t just happen overnight. It takes a lot of time, effort, and patience to build a strong relationship. And if someone truly loves you, they will respect your feelings and not push you to the limit. They will understand that you have your own life and you need your own space, and they will respect that.
  • When someone truly loves you, they’ll understand that no matter how good your heart is, it also gets tired. They’ll be there for you when your head is cloudy and your spirit is heavy. They’ll keep you company on long walks and short flights, listen to your woes and lend an ear when you need to talk. When you feel alone, they’ll be there to remind you that you’re not alone.
  • If someone really loves you, they’ll appreciate your nude soul far more than your nude body. When you strip away all the superficiality and materialism, love is really all that matters. And when you truly love someone, they’ll see the beauty in everything, even your most intimate and personal moments.
  • And finally, they’ll never give up on you — not even when you think that maybe, just maybe, you might have given up on yourself.


True love doesn’t come along often, so when it does, you want to make the most of it. And what better way to do that than by giving your all to the person you love? That means committing yourself fully to their feelings and letting your emotions flow freely. However, sometimes our loved ones do things that bother or bother us. They might not say anything, but the way they act reveals their true feelings. If you feel like your partner isn’t loving you as much as you think they are, try paying attention to their actions instead of just their words.

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Bella Smith is a Psychology & Human Behaviour enthusiast. She is a freelance writer and has had her written pieces published on a few Wikis and popular sites. People connect with her because of the way she writes, her thoughts and her stories.

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