Every parent wishes to get out of the diaper phase as quickly as possible. Thankfully, according to a practise known as three-day potty training, switching to the toilet doesn't have to be a long process. "It takes a weekend to train a child to use the toilet. All you have to do now is choose the appropriate weekend "Baby 411: Clear Answers & Smart Advice For Your Baby's First Year is co-authored by Ari Brown, M.D., a Parents advisor and co-author.
Parents used to train their children over weeks or months, using sticker charts and candies to encourage them to use the toilet while allowing pull-on diapers. "However, switching back and forth might be confusing for kids, so I prefer a strategy where you start where you intend to move on," says Michelle Swaney, CEO of The Potty School, a potty-training consulting firm. "If the goal is to get kids to pee and defecate in the toilet as soon as possible, why wouldn't we start doing that now?"
Supporters of the three-day toilet training method argue that it is more manageable for children than progressive approaches, which can be confusing, and that the crash course helps children understand what it feels like to have to go. Continue reading to find out how to toilet train your child in three days, as well as how to make the process work for your family.
Is Your Child Ready for Potty Training?
If the kid is demonstrating readiness, Vana Melkonian, M.D., a paediatrician in Weston, Massachusetts, recommends starting potty training as early as 18 to 21 months, but some experts think the sweet spot is between 30 and 33 months. Everyone agrees that the going becomes tougher after 36 months (3-year-olds are known for their tenacity!)
So, how can you know whether your child is ready to stop wearing drsiape? Keep an eye out for the following warning indicators.
Awareness of one's own body. When your child feels the need to go to the bathroom, they often hide behind the couch or wait until they're alone to do so.
A desire to keep things clean. Your child may indicate that they need a diaper change if they are uncomfortable sitting in a wet or soiled diaper.
Mastery of the muscles. They can independently walk to the bathroom, pull down their pants, and sit on the potty.
The creation of a routine. Experts believe that children are ready to wet or soil their diapers at around the same times every day.
The potty has piqued my interest. Curiosity about what happens on the toilet is another indicator, which can show as a deep interest in your bathroom habits.
3-Day Potty Training: How It Works
This potty training strategy allows parents to choose any three days. However, because it takes a lot of time and work, most parents prefer to do it on the weekends. (Bonus points if the weekend is three days!)
Prepare to spend the majority of your time at home with your child. Brandi Brucks, an in-home potty-training expert and author of Potty Training in 3 Days: The Step-by-Step Plan for a Clean Break From Dirty Diapers, says, "You have to pay constant attention to them so you can learn the indicators that show they're going to go."
To toilet train your boy or girl in three days, follow this step-by-step guide.
Step 1: Preparing for Potty Training
All you really need to start this so-called "potty training boot camp" is simple access to the toilet. While some three-day methods recommend buying a kid-size potty, Brucks advises avoiding it because your child will eventually have to adjust to using a regular toilet. (However, you can put a kid-size potty-seat insert on your regular toilet.)
Brucks advises parents to begin preparing their children two weeks ahead of time by discussing the upcoming shift frequently. She says, "Kids need time to process." "Telling them ahead of time is much more effective than telling them all at once, 'No more diapers, you're going to the potty,' which is too much at once." She recommends utilising this two-week period to introduce potty-training vocabulary, such as what it means to be wet and dry, and how you'll get rid of the changing table so diaper changes may be done in the bathroom. h.)
Step 2: Ditching the Diapers
Leave the diapers at home! During the three-day potty training technique, many parents and professionals advocate that your child remain naked—or at least without bottoms. This is because underwear can feel like diapers, which can lead to accidents. If your child is already nude on the bottom, it's also easier to get them on the toilet as soon as possible.
Nudity also forces people to pay closer attention to their bodies. Parents adviser and Atlanta paediatrician Jennifer Shu, M.D., the medical editor of the American Academy of Pediatrics' website, HealthyChildren.org, says, "Children get quick feedback that they're voiding or stooling." "The sensation of being wet or unclean may be less noticeable if they're wearing underwear, training pants, or pull-on diapers."
Some parents, however, prefer to wear elastic-waist pants, dresses, or training pants (reusable, specially designed cotton underpants with extra layers of fabric between the legs.) Choose the one that will be most beneficial to your child.
Step 3: Giving Excess Fluids
Give your youngster a little extra liquid than usual, such as water, juice, popsicles, watermelon, and so on. They'll need to use the restroom frequently, which will aid them with toilet training.
Step 4: Sitting on the Toilet
Dr. Brown recommends encouraging your child to listen to their bodies and sit on the toilet when they realise they're about to pee or poop. You'll have to keep an eye on your child for indicators that they need to go to the bathroom. These can be subtle and depend on whether your child needs to pee or poop, but signs frequently include a pause in play, a worried or empty expression, sounds (such as grunting), turning red in the face, or passing gas. However, each child is unique, so keep an eye on them.
Step 5: Visiting the Bathroom
Encourage your child to use the restroom first thing in the morning, before and after naps, after meals, and right before sleep. Inquire if your child needs to pee or poop on a regular basis. Setting a timer and putting their child on the potty every 20 or 30 minutes is a popular practise among some parents. Brucks, on the other hand, advises against it. "Transitions are challenging for toddlers, and forcing them to stop what they're doing and get up to use the potty every 30 minutes will cause them to melt down," she explains. Instead, she suggests keeping an eye out for the telltale indicators that they need to leave.
Step 6: Managing Naps and Bedtime
You could be concerned about how you'll handle naps and overnights. Pull-on diapers are recommended for sleeping, but underwear should be worn over the diaper, according to Brucks. "You're training them not to go in their underwear," she explains, adding that "frequently seeing underwear seems to fool them into not going."
Many toddlers will start to stay dry for naps and nights after a month of potty training, according to Brucks, if parents remain attentive about putting on the pull-on diaper right before bed and removing it as soon as they wake up so they don't use it instead of the potty. However, nocturnal training is a separate process
for some children, and many aren't ready to sleep without bedwetting protection until years later. (In reality, it's the case.)
Step 7: Expecting Accidents
Unfortunately, a tinkle must fall into every potty training journey: almost no child makes it through this procedure without at least a few wet pairs of trousers. Accidents, on the other hand, are beneficial during the first three days since they are essential to the learning process. "You want your child to have accidents because they need to know how it feels," Brucks explains, "and you need accidents to learn those indicators that they're going to go." Brucks emphasises the importance of preparing for a potentially lengthy journey ahead: "They're still toddlers," she explains, "so they'll have accidents."
Determining the Success of 3-Day Potty Training
If you're thinking that a single weekend of potty training would guarantee an accident-free future for you and your child, you should adjust your expectations. Experts and parents agree that the three days will most likely be just the beginning of your child's potty training. So, how do you know whether you've succeeded?
Your child isn't ready for potty training if they still leave puddles on the floor after three days, or if they don't seem to mind having multiple accidents in their training pants. Dr. Brown advises going back to diapers and trying again another weekend.
If kids spend the weekend in training pants and regret having an accident or two, job achieved! Your youngster can wear training pants every day until they are ready to graduate to big-kid underwear.
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It's essential to know that, despite the joy of eliminating your diaper budget, watching your child grow from a toddler to a big kid may be difficult—and that a touch of loss is a common, if unexpected, reaction to the potty-training process. But, as Amy Palanjian, a parent of three from Pella, Iowa, who started YummyToddlerFood.com, points out, it also allows you to be proud of your child's adaptation.
"It's incredible to learn how capable our children are," she says. "As you assist them in potty training, you'll notice that they begin to connect the dots and realise that they can actually accomplish this new and strange thing." It's fascinating to watch your youngster grow in independence over time.
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